Frontlines: The Latest from OutServe-SLDN
From California to New York—Next Stop, Washington D.C.
Labels: Barak Obama, Bob Barr, california, Hillary Clinton, McCain, new york
05-30-08 Comment (1)
The Urgent Need for Common Sense
“The number of U.S. troops diagnosed by the military with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) jumped nearly 50 percent in 2007 over the previous year,” the Washington Post’s Ann Scott Tyson reported this morning, citing Pentagon data. The dramatic increase is concurrent with longer and repeated combat tours that increasing numbers of men and women are required to serve in Iraq and Afghanistan.
As the United States continues to wage war on two fronts, the need for military personnel increases. As a consequence, the military has taken extraordinary steps to expand its recruiting universe and retain trained service members. Convicted felons are granted moral waivers, soldiers with serious medical conditions are sent back to the Middle East, educational standards have fallen as signing bonuses have increased – all in an effort to find enough men and women to fight our country’s battles.
And yet the U.S. Congress does not allow the armed forces to recruit one particular class of Americans, simply because they are lesbian, gay, or bisexual. Because of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” 12,000 gay service members have been dismissed out of hand. Those who remain in uniform must carry the extra burden of extended tours, more frequent deployments, and the increased risks of physical and psychological damage. When will common sense prevail? When will Congress repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell?”
Click here to urge your member of Congress to join the movement to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” Everyone benefits when everyone is included.
-Victor MaldonadoLabels: recruiting, waivers
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Out Front in Colorado
During his recent visit to Colorado, SLDN executive director Aubrey Sarvis talked to Matt Kailey, managing editor of Out Front Colorado, about "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and why efforts in Colorado to lift the ban are important if we are ever to get the law repealed.
The interview takes on the history of the ban as well as the possible future of the law under a new administration. You can read the interview in its entirety by clicking here.
-Victor MaldonadoLabels: Colorado
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Remembering Our Friend Dave Jenks
So many lives, so terribly cut short! On this past Memorial Day weekend we remember all those young men and women killed in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, and the thousands and thousands more who died in earlier wars. The memorials of our city have been crowded these past few days with Americans who have come to pay tribute to those who gave their lives in service to their country – their country and ours. We owe them a debt beyond tears or measure. At SLDN we hold a special place in our hearts for the unknown number of those heroes who were lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender – and forced to die as they had lived: in silence about that critical part of their lives.
But we also hold a special place in our hearts this Memorial Day week for David S. Jenks, whose life was suddenly, shockingly cut short on the morning of May 19. He was 45 years old, in the full prime and vigor of his life. He had shown no previous signs of illness. His age and his vitality made his death all the more shocking to those who knew and loved him.
I knew Dave for more than twenty years. We worked together on a number of real estate and legal transactions. Dave was the ultimate professional, exceedingly competent and highly successful. He cared about what he did and he cared about those he worked with. A handsome man, he was disarming and fun and a delight to be with whatever the occasion – over drinks and dinner in the Hamptons, at the Delaware beaches, or at his home near Washington Circle.
SLDN supporter, real estate agent and lawyer Hugh Oates put it this way: “Dave was first rate. In our real estate world of too much stress and tension, he brought everyone to the table to make it all work, and he did it with ease and style.”
Dave was one of SLDN’s strongest supporters. After George Washington University law school he served as captain in the Judge Advocates General Corps of the United States Army. He knew from direct experience what it was like to serve in the Army and be forced to keep an important and deeply personal part of himself hidden from his comrades. That is one reason why he was such an active and consistent supporter of SLDN, and why his family has requested that in lieu of flowers contributions be made to this organization.
A memorial service will be held at 3 p.m. today at the Luther Place Memorial Church, 1226 Vermont Avenue, NW. Also tonight, the Duplex Diner, where Dave’s was a familiar smiling face, will donate all of its bar tips and a portion of its proceeds to SLDN as his friends gather to trade stories about this vibrant, vital man who was rarely seen without a smile on his face.
Dave was an active member of the D.C. Bar and of the Washington real estate community. He founded the Avenue Title Group where he worked closely with his partner in life as well as in business, David G. Helfrich.
But our purpose here is not to write an obituary. You can find the facts of his life and also sign a guest book in the Washington Post and in the Blade. We are here to mourn the passing and celebrate the life of a dear friend.
“He had a huge zest for life,” his friend Wes Combs and SLDN supporter said. “He lived in a big way.” All his friends agreed with that. “And he was extremely generous with his time and advice.”
He was extremely generous in countless ways to SLDN. He was one of our staunchest supporters, and we will miss him greatly for all of those reasons but especially because the smile on his face brought smiles to our own. The joy he brought to life was contagious. We are all better for having known him.
-Aubrey Sarvis
05-27-08 Comment (2)
MEMORIAL DAY—What it Means to Me
By definition, Memorial Day is a time to remember. One day, out of 365, set aside to remember all those who came before that paid the ultimate price so I could live as a free American.
Labels: Memorial Day
05-24-08 Comment (1)
MEMORIAL DAY— Friends Remembered
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MEMORIAL DAY—Remembering Alan Rogers
Memorial Day is a special time for Americans who have lost loved ones to the service of our country. The families and friends of the more than 4,000 American service members killed in Iraq since 2003 share a special bond rooted equally in grief and pride, emotions we will share as we mark Memorial Day once again this year.
This Memorial Day is particularly salient for me this year as I remember the life of my friend and colleague, Major Alan Rogers. As many people now know, Alan was killed in Iraq by an IED on January 27, 2008. According to his commander, he shielded two others from the blast, who likely would have been killed were it not for Alan’s bravery. Alan was laid to rest at Arlington National Cemetery on March 14th, 2008, in the presence of more than two hundred grieving but proud friends, fellow soldiers, and family members.
I knew Alan through my work here at Servicemembers Legal Defense Network and through our mutual activism in the DC Chapter of American Veterans for Equal Rights. He was a student at Georgetown University, pursuing a master’s degree through a prestigious Army fellowship program, when I first met him.
Because of my familiarity with the legal ins and outs of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and the Military Readiness Enhancement Act, a bill that would repeal that law, Alan interviewed me for his final paper for school. I used to chide him for being so “out” to so many people, and worried that some day the fact that he was gay would get back to the military and spell the end of his career. I worried that his choice of topic for his final paper might raise eyebrows, and cause him to be discovered. But he seemed fearless, confident that he’d make it through his career without his sexual orientation getting in the way. In the end, I guess he was right.
When I first learned of Alan’s death through an email I received at work from a mutual friend, I was stunned. I walked dazed into the office of a good friend and colleague and cried bitterly. I cried because none of us would ever see Alan’s beautiful smile again, except in photographs and in our minds’ eyes. I cried because it was unbearable to think of this beautiful and gentle person being ripped apart by an IED in a foreign land. I cried because Alan was so good. He was one of the kindest, most generous, thoughtful, genuinely good people I have ever known. And he was gone, and nothing would ever change that.
In addition to this grief, which I am sure is typical of that felt by everyone who loses a friend or loved one to war, my grief was compounded by the knowledge that Alan would not live to see the day when the Army he loved so dearly would accept him for who he was.
Alan was so many things to so many people – he was a friend and mentor, an exemplary commander, a co-worker, a student – many of us didn’t even know until after his passing that he was an ordained minister. And all of these parts of Alan’s life were shared and celebrated by those who knew him and grieved his loss, and those who reported on his death in the papers. But the fact that he was gay was taboo.
I don’t think that people are defined primarily by the sexual orientation, but I think it’s a part of any person’s life. If I died tomorrow, my obituary would include mention of my loving husband and my kids – it’s a part of my life, just as much as anything else. But because Alan was gay, this part of his life would have been buried with him if it weren’t for the efforts of friends who insisted on telling Alan’s story – including the fact that he was gay.
Why does it matter? Why should anyone need to know that Alan Rogers, an American patriot who died doing what he loved most – serving our country – also happened to be gay?
It matters because in our country the law says that gay people who want to serve in our nation’s Armed Forces have to conceal their identity for the privilege of doing so. And as a result, thousands of very good, fair, and decent straight service members have no idea how many of the phenomenal people they work with every day also happen to be gay. This invisibility creates an environment of complacency about “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and what it requires of gay Americans in uniform. And change does not happen in an environment of complacency.
This part of Alan’s story is important because Alan can put a face on gay service members in his death, even if he couldn’t during his life. Alan was by every metric an utterly superb Army officer. He gave his life for our country, and saved two other lives in the course of sacrificing his own. He also happened to be gay. So why do we have a law in this country that makes Alan’s life less worthy than any other? Why should Alan have had to sacrifice the freedom to live honestly among his military peers, to date and maybe even find someone special enough to spend his life with? Why did he have to give so much more as a privilege of serving our country? These are the questions Alan’s life and death pose for all of us.
Alan’s funeral at Arlington was beautiful. The solemn procession of people that followed the caisson bearing Alan’s casket came from all walks of life. Alan touched so many lives so profoundly, that people came from literally all over the world to pay their final respects to him. And there, at that funeral, the many worlds in which Alan lived came together at last. Active duty friends and former colleagues in dress uniform stood beside a large cadre of gay veteran friends of Alan’s. The sea of faces contained members of every race, young and old. A few brave gay active duty service members even came to pay their respects, nervously doing their best to keep their distance from the gay veterans they knew there, and trying instead to blend in with the other uniforms in the crowd. Sometimes I noticed people eying each other uneasily, as if they were wondering about each other’s connections to Alan.
After the funeral, I saw an officer with whom I served as a young lieutenant many years ago. I walked across the lawn and called his name, and within seconds we were reminiscing about our younger years serving together overseas. He asked me what I was doing now, and I told him I’m working to repeal the ban on gays in the military. He was supportive. “We need all the good people we can get,” he said.
I asked him how he knew Alan, and he said they were classmates together at Georgetown. He asked me how I knew Alan, and I hesitated for a moment. Finally, I looked my old colleague in the eye, and I said very cautiously, “I knew him through my work."
A brief pause followed. “Wow,” my old colleague responded. “There was so much about Alan I never knew."
There was so much about Alan that people never knew. I’m still grieving his loss, as I know so many others are as well. And I’m intensely proud to have called him my friend.
Labels: Alan Rogers, Memorial Day
05-23-08 Comment (1)
Civil Rights—Then and Now
The California Supreme Court ruled last week that same-sex couples have the same fundamental right to marry as heterosexual couples under the California State Constitution. The decision was based in part on the 1948 decision in Perez v. Sharp which ended the state's ban on interracial marriage.
Labels: Huffington Post
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Thoughts and Prayers
Staff and supporters of SLDN would like to send our best wishes to Massachusetts Senator Edward Kennedy and his family, following news yesterday that he has been diagnosed with cancer.
A powerful advocate for civil rights and issues important to millions of military families, Kennedy has fought for a government that grants everyone equal access to the American dream regardless of their race, gender, religion, nationality or sexual orientation. Kennedy has been a public supporter of SLDN and our work to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and now it is our turn to stand by him.
Everyone here at SLDN has been moved by his spirit and his strength. He has consistently fought for the underdog, and fought hard. He has lived through a lot. He'll get through this, too. Our thoughts and prayers are with him.
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05-21-08 Comment (0)
Witt v. U.S. Air Force
Earlier this week, the 9th Circuit Court of Appeals reinstated the case of Major Margaret Witt, a U.S. Air Force flight nurse who was discharged after 18 years of decorated service when her command learned that she is a lesbian. This decision marks the first time a U.S. Court of Appeals has specifically stated that the military must meet a heightened standard when infringing on a gay service member’s right to privacy.
So what does this mean, exactly, for the future of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT)?” To be honest, we aren’t really sure. I can tell you that all of the lawyers at SLDN were dancing in the hallways when we read the opinion issued by the court. (Okay, maybe it was just me dancing in the halls but we were all pretty excited!). In the short term, the 9th Circuit ruling means that Major Witt will get her day in court. She’ll have the opportunity to tell her story and show that her constitutional rights were violated by the Air Force when she was discharged under DADT. And, because of this heightened standard that the court is now requiring, in order to pass constitutional muster, the government must present evidence showing that Major Witt’s continued service in the Air Force is such a disruption to unit cohesion, good order and discipline that her discharge was justified under DADT and that DADT itself is one of the least intrusive means of addressing Major Witt’s disruption to unit cohesion.
But because the 9th Circuit decision was specific to Major Witt, and was narrowly written to apply to her case only, what this means for the future of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” litigation is unclear. What is inspiring about the court’s opinion is that the 9th Circuit justices not only ruled in favor of Major Witt, but they also took the opportunity to give a clear analysis of why Lawrence v. Texas requires a heightened standard of review, even in a military setting.
In 2004, SLDN, along with co-counsel WilmerHale, filed Cook v. Gates, a constitutional challenge of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” on behalf of 12 service members discharged under the law. Just like Major Witt’s case, Cook was dismissed at the trial court level without a chance to develop any facts. In March of 2007, the Cook plaintiffs made very similar arguments to the 1st Circuit Court as did Witt did to the 9th. With the issuance of the Witt decision, SLDN has great hope that the 1st Circuit will, at the very least, reach the same conclusions as the 9th Circuit and will allow our plaintiffs to have their day in court.
Labels: cook v. gates, Witt
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