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Connecticut Marriage Ruling Highlights More Harms of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”

Following in the footsteps of the Massachusetts and California State Supreme Courts, the Connecticut State Supreme Court ruled October 10 that same-sex couples have the same right to marry as heterosexual couples under the Connecticut State Constitution. This is of course a great day for all of those living in Connecticut. But unfortunately, for those service members affected by "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," this victory is tinged with an element of sadness.

Under "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," these patriotic Americans cannot take full advantage of their state constitutional right to marry the person they love. The "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" law explicitly states that marriage or attempted marriage to someone of the same sex is grounds for discharge from the military. It may even expose some service members to an Other Than Honorable discharge characterization. Service members thinking about getting married should contact SLDN first to learn about all of the risks and consequences of marriage.

10-10-08 By Aaron Tax, Managing Attorney |