Gratitude and Commitment
Watching yesterday’s Senate Armed Services Committee hearing on “Do
n’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” I was moved to tears by Admiral Mullen’s statement:
My personal belief is that allowing homosexuals to serve openly would be the right thing to do. I cannot escape being troubled by the fact that we have in place a policy which forces young men and women to lie about who they are in order to defend their fellow citizens. For me, it comes down to integrity -- theirs as individuals and ours as an institution.
Like many of you reading this post, I have been working on this issue for many, many years. It has been 17 years to be exact - ever since I publicly came out in 1993 as a political statement to encourage then President-elect Clinton to lift the ban on gay and lesbian military service.
So to hear our most senior U.S. military officer bravely and eloquently describe this law as being in conflict with the military’s core value of integrity was historic. I had always hoped I would see this day, but I didn’t realize how hard it would hit me when the moment came. An institution that had at one time deemed me unworthy of service because I dared speak the truth might finally be changing its mind. At least its leadership has. And for Admiral Mullen’s courage, I am tremendously grateful. He seems, at least from his words yesterday, to get it.
When I advocate for repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” on Capitol Hill, in the media, or in classrooms across the country, I repeat the practical arguments: The law is costly, we are weakening our military readiness by discharging fully capable troops, more than 24 other countries allow gays and lesbians to serve with no reported negative impact to readiness, retention or recruitment. Deep down though, my driving passion is the knowledge it is the right thing to do. An estimated 66,000 brave gay and lesbian service members currently in uniform wake up every morning wondering if today is the day they will be turned in, investigated, or forced to lie about who they are. Every day they put their lives on the line for a country that denies them equal citizenship. Every day they hear arguments for and against “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and even though they are the ones most affected by the law, they are not allowed to participate in the debate for fear of exposing themselves to suspicion, investigation or discharge.
It was refreshing to hear Chairman Levin and Senators Udall, McCaskill, Burris, Lieberman, and Snowe advocate repeal. In my opinion, Senators McCain and Chambliss sounded like cranky old men clinging on to the 1993 debate and out of touch with the realities of 2010. Their strongest argument was a document supporting DADT signed by 1,100 retired flag officers, most of whom are well into their 70’s and never served under the ban.
Today, I take a brief moment to recognize the significance of yesterday’s testimony. I also fully recognize the job is not nearly done. There is no “Mission Accomplished” banner flying overhead. We still have a long way to go. I am deeply disappointed that the Pentagon is proposing a yearlong study of the potential impact of repeal. We don’t need another study – we have the 1993 RAND study that concluded openly gay service members would not present a detriment to unit cohesion and morale. We have the experience of 24+ other countries that allow gays and lesbians to serve openly. We have my experience serving as an open lesbian for 13 years with no negative impact to the effectiveness or cohesion of my units.
Gays and lesbians are currently serving alongside their heterosexual counterparts – this is not the major logistical implementation challenge posed by the integration of women and African-Americans into the military. Every day we delay repealing this discriminatory law is another day a patriotic soldier, sailor, marine or airman faces the potential end to their career.
So we must put pressure on the Pentagon, the White House, and Congress to include repeal language in the 2010 Defense Authorization bill and do what they can to suspend or minimize discharges in the interim. This study can inform Congress on how the implementation should best be carried out, but not whether repeal should happen. The two can run parallel – the study and congressional action to overturn the law. One does not need to wait for the other. Let’s get the law overturned THIS YEAR.
I’m fully committed to doing everything I can to make it happen. Please join me in the fight!!!
02-03-10 By CDR Zoe Dunning, USN (Ret.) |






5 Comments
Comments for this entry are closed.Sarah in Sweden on February 04, 2010 at 08.08 pm
I really hope DADT is repealed. It doesn’t effect me in person(since I live in Sweden) but I’m firm in my beliefs that any person who wants to serve their country should be allowed to do so. No matter who they love.
“I cannot escape being troubled by the fact that we have in place a policy which forces young men and women to lie about who they are in order to defend their fellow citizens.” Admiral Mullen says and I have to agree with ecery single word he says.
You all (americans that is) have my best wishes and my full support of the repeal of DADT.
Dino in Washington, DC on February 03, 2010 at 06.22 pm
By the way Joe, I see you live in Montgomery, Alabama. You have my condolences for being represented by Mr. Sessions.
Dino in Washington, DC on February 03, 2010 at 05.16 pm
Yes Joe, I did notice the look of shock on Senator Session’s face. He looked like he was about to poop in his drawers.
Dino in Washington, DC on February 03, 2010 at 04.57 pm
Thank you Commander Dunning for your courage and your words of encouragement and support. I was also very heartened by yesterday’s hearing. It is more than obvious that Senator McCain knows better and is just trying to appease the right wing of his party as he is being challenged by a far-right talk show host back in Arizona in the Republican Primary. It is of course disappointing that there will be yet another study to tell us what we already know and that we will probably have to wait at least another year to see the full repeal of DADT. But I honestly didn’t think we would see the events of the last couple days come until at least well into the Second Term of President Obama. I know many are thinking what good will it do, but I think Senator McCain should get an earful for his reactionism. I encourage everyone to take just a minute to email him .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address). As I am writing this I just got a breaking news alert email from Service Members United that Retired General Colin Powell came out for the repeal of don’t ask don’t tell. I also got an email from Wes Pac, the Political Action Committee of Retired General Wesley Clark where he also followed suit. The end of don’t ask don’t tell is within our reach but it is not a done deal or forgone conclusion. Now is the time to take action like never before, and as my Army Drill Sergeant would say MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!!!
Joe Cottle in Montgomery, Alabama on February 03, 2010 at 04.45 pm
Did anyone see the look on Sen. Sessions’ face after Mullen’s statement? It was a look of horror, like he’d seen the second coming of Jesus—and he was surrounded only by liberals.