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Sharon Debbage Alexander – A True Patriot

In recent years, and especially during this campaign season, the public has witnessed a debate about what conduct and statements evinces sufficient love for country and support for our troops. During this debate, we have been asked to reduce patriotism to fashion accessories and sound bites. But patriotism cannot be, nor should it be, subject to such simplistic categorization. It is a way of life; choices that are made, not in a moment, but over time. A patriot is defined as “a person who loves, supports, and defends his or her country and its interests with devotion.” In my mind, Sharon Debbage Alexander is the epitome of a patriot. Sharon’s entire adult life has been in service to our country; first as a member of the armed services and then in her battle to lift the ban against openly gay, lesbian, and bisexual servicemembers. Sharon viewed this fight as one that centered on what it meant to be an American. In a televised debate, Sharon summarized the central argument as: “How do we treat those lesbian and gay servicemembers who are out there spilling their blood for your freedom and mine? Do we treat them with respect, give them first class citizenship, or do we tell them thank-you for your service now get back in the closet and we’re going to discharge you? That’s not right. That’s not my America.” Sharon’s vision of America – an America that treats all individuals with dignity and respect regardless of sexual orientation – has fueled her unending optimism and determination. She has never flagged in her belief that her America would triumph and, as a result, she buoyed those around her. Sharon’s enthusiasm and sincere belief in the freedom to serve was contagious. Because of Sharon more people are involved in the fight and we are closer to the day when all Americans can serve their country openly and proudly. Sharon, thank-you for your devotion to your country, your selfless dedication to freedom, and the dignity with which you have served.
-Jackie Gardina
SLDN Board Member
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