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SLDN MAC Member Joan Darrah

I am a retired US Navy Captain and I am gay. I am a member of the SLDN Military Advisory Board and it is my pleasure to introduce you to RADM Jamie Barnett, whose official retirement from the Navy was this Saturday, 1 June. The Navy has three core values or basic principles: Honor, Courage, and Commitment. If anyone is looking for a role model for the Navy’s core values, they need look no further than RADM Jamie Barnett. He is the type of person and Naval officer that I admired and point to as a remarkable example of someone who epitomizes the Navy’s core values and whose every day actions embody these principles. RADM Barnett has the courage and commitment to point out to his superiors and co-workers what he thinks is right. I was honored and delighted that he and his wife, Celia, joined our table at this year’s SLDN national dinner and even more honored and impressed that he came to the dinner in his uniform. I was so incredibly proud to introduce him to hundreds of gay service members and to have him see firsthand the impact of DADT. At some point during the dinner, one of the official photographers was taking a group picture of our table and someone asked RADM Barnett, “What would happen if the Chief of Naval Operations saw your picture at the SLDN dinner?” Without a second’s hesitation he responded, “Well, that would be the beginning of a very interesting conversation." Many straight people are supportive of getting rid of DADT but RADM Barnett has the courage and commitment to back up his words with actions. I am honored and incredibly proud to know him and so pleased that he has the moral courage to join the fight to repeal DADT. I am including for you, below, a copy of his retirement letter which he sent on Saturday to friends and colleagues. - CAPT Joan E. Darrah, USN, (Ret) <?xml:namespace prefix = u1 />

In lieu of a formal retirement ceremony, I would like to substitute this message as a virtual retirement. At the end of 32 years of Navy service, I feel very grateful.<?xml:namespace prefix = o />

I feel grateful to my beautiful, smart, intuitive, and patient wife, Celia, and to my incredible children, Owen and Elizabeth, for their energy and sacrifice in supporting my service and my absences from the home. And I appreciate the love and support of my extended family.

I feel grateful to my father, a very young Hellcat night fighter pilot in the Pacific during World War II and his soon-to-be Navy wife, my mother, for a safe, loving home. I know that they, and my two uncles who were Naval aviators, had a strong Navy influence on me.

I feel grateful to you and to all with whom I have served, all of my mentors. Surely the friendships and shared sea stories are the most abiding reward for Navy service, and the laughter and occasional absurdity makes the hardships, hard times and sacrifices bearable. I also have treasured the opportunity to do meaningful work to protect the Nation and to live out the patriot's oath of 'supporting and defending the Constitution,' something I believe in deeply.

As I leave uniformed service, I will continue to ‘support and defend the Constitution’ and its protection of individual rights, the right to be individual, to be different, which I think is the essence of being American. You may disagree with me (our American right!), but I hope that we see women assigned to submarines soon and an end to Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

I will always be a Sailor.

Thank you for your friendship, from which I will not retire!

Best wishes,

Rear Admiral Jaime Barnett

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