‘Tis the Season to Salute All Patriots
The holidays make me fat. It’s either that, or just my survival instincts preparing for the cold by packing on some extra insulation. But you can’t argue that it’s just fun to be with friends, share a glass of wine, some chocolate, and a few laughs. I treasure the holiday traditions with my family and friends, and feel an even stronger bond with my old Army buddies.
This time of year is when you want to be close to those you love, but “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” can put a serious damper on that. My military family grew closer during the season, but this was when the strains of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” were strongest too. Holiday parties were thrown by the Family Readiness Groups, and the spouses worked together to make it a true celebration. I never had a spouse or date that could help with the planning or decorations (they could’ve used some help in that department). Questions ensued: “Why was such a nice guy single?” or “Boy, do I have a lovely niece you should meet” – the usual.
I’m currently employed at a VA Medical Center working with OEF/OIF veterans, and I think I have rediscovered that patriotic spirit that drove me as a paratrooper in the 82nd Airborne Division. I’m reminded daily of the costs for our fellow Americans’ freedom, and especially of the sacrifices of our service members forced to serve in silence during these holidays and every day of the year.
There are days that my storied discharge creeps into my heart and mind, revisiting that embarrassment of being fired from a job. The reach of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” doesn’t stop at discharge. It’s a shadow that will continue to follow our veterans until repeal is achieved.
For those in silence, know that there are many of us lifting you up, and celebrating your contribution to our lives each day in the defense of freedom.
12-25-09 By Bleu Copas, former U.S. Army Sergeant |
3 Comments
Comments for this entry are closed.The Hated 1 in DC on January 03, 2010 at 07.08 pm
CAN I JUST SAY THANK YOU TO ALL OF OUR SERVICEMEMBERS - WHO DON"T LIVE IN FEAR
THE ONES BRAVE ENOUGH NOT TO SERVE IN SILENCE
YOU ALL TEND TO FORGET THEM!
Michael @ LeonardMatlovich.com on December 29, 2009 at 03.06 am
Thanks, Bleu, for all you continue to do to help further equality, and to all those who must serve our country in silence.
Mike Gorman in Stockton, Ca on December 25, 2009 at 02.02 pm
I have an open door policy. Any service guys and girls alone during the holidays, you come to my house. I don’t like seeing people alone on Christmas. Good food, good drink, I’ll have ya all on a holiday overdose!